Estate Planning for Blended Families

Bringing two separate families together through a second marriage is becoming more common in today’s society. Because of that, there are unique facets of each family’s dimension that need to be taken into consideration when doing estate planning involving multiple generations.

Blended Family Estate Planning Considerations

CONCERN	EXAMPLE
One family has more control than the other	Children from each family may feel that their opinions are not being taken into consideration An expected inheritance may be at risk to the other family The couple is not sharing their intentions with all children, making some feel left out
Family of Surviving Spouse	Assets stay with the family of the surviving spouse who needed funds for long-term care, but were an asset of the deceased spouse
Money being passed outside of the family	Assets from a previous spouse who may be deceased could become part of an inheritance for the new family
Children of the deceased spouse has money	Limited funds available for surviving spouse who may need long-term care
Property	Sentimental to one family, but being liquidated or sold because the surviving spouse doesn’t have the same connection
Long-term care	Prenuptial agreements do not protect the community spouse from long-term care costs Assets of both spouses must be taken into consideration for spend-down

When planning for couples who are bringing separate families together, the goal is to assist with facilitating harmony through an estate plan which recognizes and involves both sides of the family providing protection for everyone involved. Balancing conflict can be accomplished by providing information to all members of the family, establishing agents to represent both sides of the family, conducting family meetings, managing the expectations of the couple, and providing the security of access to information so agents can begin to work together.

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My husband and I would like to thank Attorney Patrick Furman and Paralegal Charity Plate for the work they did developing an Irrevocable Trust for us. The were very helpful, explaining the process to us and answering our questions. It has given us peace of mind to know that our property and finances will be handled according to our wishes.

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We retained Hooper Law Office because estate planning is their primary focus. Attorney Patrick Furman was responsive in understanding our unique family situation and very creative in crafting effective solutions. Paralegal Cindy Borowksi was friendly and efficient. This team enabled the successful conclusion of a long-deferred family responsibility. The Hooper Annual Update internet is unique, informative, and adds continuing value to the service provided.

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We were referred to Attorney Sarah Kons at Hooper Law Office to develop a family trust that worked perfectly with our needs. Attorney Kons was extremely professional, knowledgeable, thorough and patient; taking the time to learn our situation in order to properly advise us of our options. The final product was well worth the effort and cost and will ultimately save our family members a great deal of trouble upon our passing. We recommend her highly to anyone seeking family counsel. Thanks Sarah, pleasure working with you!!

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The initial consultation and subsequent contacts, including singing the final Trust paperwork, were hampered by COVID-19 restrictions. Attorney Kons and Hooper Law support staff made it as easy as possible by maintaining regular phone, email, and postal contacts throughout each step in the process of creating a new trust. We are extremely pleased that we chose Hooper Law Offices.

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1. An effective arrangement of care for family members in financial and health care issues.

2. A tax efficient transfer of wealth to beneficiaries and charity.

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Maung H. Win- Pro Bono Financial Planner/Educator

FISC

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William O.
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Sun K.
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Paulette
I am very satisfied with the work provided by Hooper Law in the preparation of our living trust. They were thorough and efficient in assisting us and provided valuable guidance and explanation of key issues. Preparation of the trust was very important to me and I am grateful for the assistance provided.

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